November Activities summary…..

Oh it has been so windy and wet of late…but it is November/December so it is to be expected!

We enjoyed a lovely morning on 11th watching the Remembrance Service with lots of our ladies and gentlemen and some visitors in the conservatory.

That prompted one of our Reminiscence Sessions….remembering the first and second World Wars.

One ladies parents came from Scotland and her father was in the Border Regiment….another’s father was in the Kent Regiment where the Cavalry horses brought guns to the troops….being part of the Artillery was another memory and later on in the Civil Defence.

Another memory this time from the second World War was a family member being in the Army and having shrapnel in his thigh….another husband was in the Navy clearing mines by exploding them ….then another husband flying in a Lancaster in the Airforce……one sailor travelling all over Europe had a nasty experience of a torpedo going under the ship and out the other side.

A lady remembers being evacuated to Stafford with her younger brother when she was 5 years old and was away from home for 2 years….some sad, some happy memories but memories all the same.

To lighten the mood I must let you know what really put a smile on everyone’s faces… of our lovely ladies had some visitors…..daughter-in law, granddaughter and great grand children!

I don’t know if any of you have seen the programmes on children visiting the elderly but my oh my it was absolutely amazing the way everyone was smiling on the arrival of the TWINS!! The little ones were so good and made everybody’s day by smiling and being an absolute delight….it truly made everyone’s day…thank you so much for visiting!

The run-up to the big day is on….lots going on at the Manor do join us when you can.



October Activities Summary………

Hello…I hope you all enjoyed the lovely late sunshine in October.

Two favourite activities at the Manor are Flower Arranging and Knitting…..Joyce has been leading these activities for years!!….Thank you Joyce.

As ever lots of music has been enjoyed over the month….most of our residents have a passion for musicals….Carousel was requested as was Anything Goes.

Again I am absolutely amazed and delighted when most join in with the songs….remembering all of the lyrics…..’If I Loved You’ was a favourite along with ‘June is Busting Out All Over’ and ‘When the Children Are Asleep’  and of course the title song from ’Anything goes’…..feet were a tapping!

Our gentleman who entertains us by playing the piano was telling us about the time that he worked for the BBC as an Orchestral Librarian and provided all the music for the Studio Big Bands….we just have to mention a song and he almost always remembers who sang or wrote it!

We had a chat about the Royal Wedding which prompted a reminiscence about our own weddings… in Beckenham with 2 Bridesmaids in apricot and herself having a small train on her dress.

Another in Chiswick, London just after the war where a dress was borrowed from her sister….being hard to come across a veil one was made out of netting….there were 2 Maids of Honour one in peach and one in blue and roses were carried….Pareham was a memory of another bride where a pale blue suit with royal blue stars was worn and a white prayer book carried.  (this may have actually been during the war)….Camden Road in South London was another memory where red and white roses were carried.

Then all of a sudden there was a scream followed by lots of laughter!……a Carer saw a huge spider climbing up the wall…..even the two male Chefs came to see this ‘enormous’ ?? creature and possibly save us!……dear Linda just took a glass…covered the spider and took it outside without any fuss whilst we had a real giggle!…..we did not want anything squashed especially on Richard’s newly painted wall!

Another topic which was prompted by the reports about Recreational Grounds being removed or built on….remembering where we played as children…Beckenham Recreation Ground where there were slides and swings, a park in Ellington Road Ramsgate, Wivelsfield Recreation Ground, a park opposite woods in Coulsdon and Ravensbury Park in Surrey where there were lots of ducks! (I used to visit there too when I was young!)

We finished off the month after our Exercising with listening to The Polperro Fisherman’s Choir….the first song was Sailing….our lovely gentleman who I spoke about earlier remembered it was originally sung by Rod Stuart!

Most of the family spent a lovely half-term in Polperro….sun shining, a boat trip to Looe with everybody,  Zoe and Alan did lots of walking as well,  John and I walked to Talland Bay from Polperro over the cliffs with Sally-Ann, Mike and the boys….phew lovely but very steep up and down!  The boys went crabbing and even went in the sea it was so warm!  Whilst all this was going on our son made a call to let us know he had just delivered a new baby daughter!! (home birth and before the Midwife arrived!)…..needless to say we all had a celebratory drink!  A new little sister to Jasper and Willow and cousins to Reuben and Eddie….new addition is called Pixie Robin!……

Bye for now…see you soon

September Activities Summary

The leaves are turning slowly into their beautiful Autumn colour….the sun is still shining keeping us quite warm in the day but turning chilly when it sets.  I think we have been lucky over the last few months even though sadly we had to cancel our Garden party!

Having the organ in the conservatory has been such a great success since our lovely gentleman entertains us daily.  These were the renditions he has been giving us to sing along to lately…..You are my Honey Honeysuckle…I am the Bee, Tip toe through the Tulips, I’ll be loving you always… song had me searching after we had a chat not really knowing what it was…..When Wippoorwills calls, Apparently it is a bird which can be found in South Eastern Canada throughout Eastern United States and from South Western USA through to Mexico wintering as far south as Costa Rica!

It goes to show that our chats make us think about the words that we automatically sing not realising what it means so I am asked to investigate….good old google!

After the Exercising we enjoyed singing along to My Fair Lady…..I was whistling and was told by a lovely lady something I had not heard for years….’A whistling woman and a crowing hen is neither fit for God or men!!!!’   I don’t think my singing is either!

We are hoping that our pianist is going to play one of my favourites…The Lambeth Walk…and we will learn the movements from our chairs!

I’ll let you know how we get on.


August Activities Summary…….

Hello everyone….sorry late short blog due to being away!

I do hope everyone is keeping well and you have been able to enjoy the sunshine!

I am afraid there is not much to say about my Mondays last month because as well as John and I having been away for 2 weeks!!!….not happened since the children were small! On the couple of Mondays I visited  it was so hot that most of our lovely ladies and gentlemen were in their cool rooms.  I spent a couple of hours just chatting to those who were enjoying a quiet time and not wanting to do ‘physical activity’   It really is just lovely having a chat…I love remembering the ‘good old days’ and it always brings a smile to faces chatting about days gone by.  Sometimes sad memories come to mind but it really helps to talk about these as well.

I must say what a lovely Residents and Family bar-b-q we had.  So lovely to see so many guests joining us in the lovely garden…as for the food it was absolutely delicious so a huge congratulations to the lovely staff who prepared and cooked and to the lovely staff who served and looked after us.

I am back on Monday 10th to see my lovely ladies and gentlemen…I have really missed the Valerie Manor family!

Bye for now